I’ve been asked about this a few times, and I wanted to express my thoughts on the topic.
First of all, if I ever write something that I don’t want one of my children reading, or at least not until they are an appropriate age, I’ll include a warning either on the cover or in the description. I’m not going to say that I will never write something that contains some form of erotica, but it’s not something I foresee right now.
Secondly, erotica is, to me, low hanging fruit. You can only describe genitalia and the interactions between people involving them so many ways. Once you’ve covered all the possibilities, you’re left with just looking for new metaphors and similes. I don’t really want to describe to you every time a person uses the bathroom for the same reason. It might be mentioned, at some point, but some things are just best left to the imagination, in my opinion.
When it comes to erotica and romance and such, I think about it in much the same way Stephen King takes his position on “scary things”. To paraphrase, it’s frightening to walk into a room full of blood and guts, but it’s far more terrifying to walk into a dark room, look for the light switch, and feel a large, hairy hand guide your hand to one. That’s what I think of, well, most things, really. Is it better to have a full on graphic sex scene, or is it better to describe the interactions that lead to it, the little moments that matter followed by a nod in that direction?
As for my current novel/series… the different relationships need quite a bit of time to develop as it is. I will be pretty surprised if any of them gets to a point past brief kisses, fond touches and fluttering eyes anytime soon, and even if it potentially goes there, I have to refer back to the idea that I want my kids to be able to pick it up and read it without getting any specific ideas.
In summary, will I ever write any kind of graphic erotica? Maybe, possibly, someday, forever is a longish time that’s hard to judge. Probably not tomorrow, though.
I still have more things for you to read for the sake of characters and plots, and I don’t want to distract you with that right now. 🙂